I remember the first time I realised as a young teacher that being the model child wasn't always the best thing. We will call her Charlotte. Charlotte was a bright little girl, more capable at her schoolwork than most children two years older. Her printing was neat. Her actions were deliberate. Her answers were right. As is often the case with these children, she was the oldest child. She didn't get into trouble. She usually noticed the mistakes of others and might quietly help the teacher by pointing them out.
You would think we would want every child to be like Charlotte.
However Charlotte was the first apparently model student who I realised was not as perfect as she seemed. The realisation hit me with a thump. Charlotte needed to learn to fail. She needed to learn that it was ok to not be perfect. My goal for her as a teacher changed at that point. While still encouraging her with her successes I began to help her understand that real learning must include mistakes and that coping with failure is important for a healthy life.
While reading through reports this week I have read of a child who is very capable but is underachieving, a child who is very capable and achieving superbly, and another child who struggles with her learning but is persevering positively in spite of her many mistakes - so well that she has made huge progress. In the Long Term, the skills learned by this last child will hold her in great stead for success in life.
Perfection in our work is a worthy goal, and it is great when we can achieve it. But if we don't learn young, we will learn through hard experiences as an adult that we are never going to live up to the perfect standard all the time.
Perfection in our character and behaviour is also a worthy goal. However, if our identity is based in a false self-perception of our superior goodness, we are in for a crash. Charlotte liked to subtly point out the error of other's ways. A realisation of God's grace is life changing - especially when we realise that the things we despise in others are often hidden within ourselves. When we are young and 'perfect - or good - in our own eyes' we look at others and their sin partly -and subconsciously - as a way to deflect our attention from what is our own issue.
Jesus spoke of this as the log and splinter. He said, most profoundly, that we should take the log from our own eye before focusing on the splinter in our neighbour's eye.
At MCS we celebrate the growth that comes after we can accept that making mistakes is a most valuable part of learning, that we all have logs and splinters and that the journey of growth in God's grace is what makes life exciting.
Celebration Assembly
and Working Bee
This Friday we are having our celebration assembly from 9.10 –
10.30. All parents, caregivers and
friends are welcome to attend.
We are planning to have a school working bee from 10.30 – 1pm and
would love to have parents stay and help.
If you haven’t already could you please fill out the form below and let
us know where you can help.
Parent
Teacher Interviews
Parent Teacher Interviews will be occurring next term on Wednesday 22nd July from 1.30 –
6.00pm. Time slots will be allocated
this week.
Class
Photos
Class photos will be occurring
on Thursday 2nd July.
Those students in hockey teams will also be photographed on the same
day. Snells Beach School hockey players
will be joining us so that all team photos can be taken at the same time. Envelopes have been sent home about
photographic packages. The envelopes
need to be returned to school before Thursday 2nd July. If your child plays hockey, then please
ensure that they have their hockey uniform at school on Thursday.
Teacher only day
Our
teacher only day has had to be changed.
It is now on Monday 10th August.
The hockey draw this week is:
MCS Rockets vs WW Pumas – 9.20am, Field 2
SB Snapdragons vs M Hawks – 11.00am Field 1 /2
SB Strikers vs KF Sticks – 11.00am Field 3 /4
Hockey then stops for the holidays and the next game will be on
the 25th July.
Parent
Group
The next parent group
meeting is on this Wednesday 1st July at 2pm in the church creche. All parents
are welcome.
The Parent Group is
still wanting to collect the following items:
- 1.5 litre soft drink bottles
- Can with the tabs still attached
- Breakfast cereal boxes
The Win it in a Minute Family Fun night is on Saturday 8th August.
Community Notices
Accommodation Needed
Wanted a 2-3 bedroom house in Snells Beach,
Warkworth for 1 adult and 2 children.
Please phone Rachel on 021 038 6356
Holiday Programme
A KIDS’ HOLIDAY PROGRAMME is available from Monday,
July 13 to Friday 17 from 9.15am
-12.30pm. The theme is “SAFARIS”.
The venue is Mahurangi
Presbyterian Church, 5 Pulham Rd., Warkworth. Participation by donation
eg $2 per day. Pre-enrolling is preferable. Forms
and more information are available from Ann Cates
(425 0966).
Sandspit Yacht Club
Centreboard Division
The Sandspit yacht club are having a Family Fun Day
on Saturday 11th July from 11.30 – 4pm at 30 Gordon Craig Drive,
Algies Bay. Please contact Mischelle
Mills on 0221712550 or email sandspitleantosail@gmail.com
Middle Years Toolbox
Parenting Group
A toolbox parenting group will be run at Mahurangi
Vineyard Church – 21 Hamatana Road, Snells Beach. The course starts on Monday 10th
August at 10am and runs for 6 weeks.
Please contact Diane McKinstry for further details on 021 292 4105 or
aucklandnorth@theparentingplace.com.
Grasshopper Soccer
Grasshopper Soccer is running an 8 week program in
Term 3 for girls and boys aged 2 to 12. For
further information please contact Dean on 021 133 3096 or email
dean@grasshopperssoccer.co.nz.
Kip
McGrath
Kip McGrath Warkworth have English and maths
tuition aligned to the NZ Curriculum. Programmes designed to suit individual
learning styles for Year 1-12. Phone
Anne Cook on (09) 422 2305. Website Kip
McGrath Warkworth
Te Whau Coastal Reserve planting
The
Goodall - Te Whau Committee and Auckland Council’s Sustainable Catchments
Programme invite you to come and help out with planting beside the walkway that
runs through this reserve. This planting will enhance the walkway construction
project starting this year. The walkway will improve access between Goodall
Reserve and Dawson’s Landing, giving the community an opportunity to enjoy the
sheltered coastal beauty of this part of the world
When:
Saturday 4th July, 10am – 12pm
Rain date:
Saturday 11th July
Refreshments
to follow the planting.
Where:
Meet at the bridge at the Cornel Circle entrance to the reserve.
What to bring:
Bring a spade and gloves if you can.
Forensics at Kristin
Forensics@Kristin is a high quality, high energy, non residential
holiday camp experience for gifted
students from all over New Zealand. A completely student-led programme, the
camps involve tremendous fun and new friendships with like-minded students from
a wide variety of places and backgrounds.
There are three divisions: Junior Forensics (Year
3-6), Middle School Forensics (Year 7-10), Senior Scholars (Year 11-13)
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